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QUALITIES IN MEN ATTRACTED BY WOMEN

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QUALITIES IN MEN ATTRACTED BY WOMEN 1.Having Confidence When a man walks into a room and gives off an air of confidence, he instantly becomes more attractive. Even if he is the most gorgeous man in the room, the absence of confidence can kill his chances of keeping a woman's attention. 2.A Sense of Humor Women love a man who can laugh and make them laugh in return. There is nothing sexier than a man that can make a woman laugh so hard that she cackles uncontrollably. 3. Being a Gentleman He doesn't have to dress like Gary Cooper, but he should have his manners down to a "T" when it comes to courting women. That means: opening doors, letting the women go in first, saying "please" and "thank you," and being respectful.A bouquet of flowers or box of chocolates as a surprise on a date will win you bonus points. It's not that much of an investment, but it's a nice gesture that can mean the world to someone. 4....

MAKE BETTER ARGUMENTS

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How do I make better arguments in general? Winston Churchill was arguing with a woman at a dinner party.Churchill was a difficult man, with a strong personality and a willingness to stand behind his point.The two went back and forth until she finally said, “If I were your wife, I’d poison your coffee.”Churchill retorted, “If I were your husband, I’d drink it.” I never think of those comebacks in the heat of the moment. It’s always during my drive home that I realize I could have totally owned this other person. The French have a saying for this, “L’esprit D’escalier” — or stairway wit. The truth is — I hate arguing . I don’t like conflict. But I’ve studied the hell out of argumentation because it’s so important. Making a good, strong argument is necessary for securing a raise, deescalating a conflict, suffering fools, protecting friendships, and much more. Snipe an argument like a champ Rule 1 : Don’t come in too hot — and that doesn’t just refer to emotions. For example, i...